
今天,一个包裹到了。
里面是一台小小的车子——是我特地为一位学生订的礼物。
他很喜欢车。
这个孩子患有 ADHD,在表达和理解上都有一些困难。但他却拥有一把很干净、很动人的声音。
有时候我会想,每个孩子都有属于自己的天赋,只是我们需要用不同的方式去看见。
在教他的过程中,我也在不断学习。
学习如何成为一个更有耐心的老师,
学习如何真正去理解“特殊”这件事。
慢慢地我发现,教这样的孩子,并不是用更多的语言,而是用更简单、更直接的方式。
句子要短。
指令要清楚。
需要配合明确的动作提示。
当他做对的时候,我只说一句:“Yes。”
当他做错的时候,一个手势,加上一句简单的“No。”就足够。
不需要过多解释,但需要更多的理解与爱。
因为他们不是听不懂,
只是需要一个更适合他们的方式去理解这个世界。
而我们,
就是那个让世界变得更容易的人。
Educational Reflection | A Small Gift, A Greater Lesson
A package arrived today.
Inside was a small toy car—something I specially ordered for one of my students.
He loves cars.
This child has ADHD, and faces certain challenges in expression and understanding. Yet, he possesses a voice that is pure and deeply moving.
At times, I am reminded that every child has their own unique gift. What matters is how we choose to see it.
Teaching him has also been a learning journey for me.
A journey of becoming more patient, and of truly understanding what it means to embrace differences.
Over time, I’ve come to realize that teaching children like him does not require more words — but rather, simpler and more direct communication.
Keep sentences short.
Give clear instructions.
Use physical signals to guide.
When he does something right, I simply say, “Yes.”
When he makes a mistake, a simple gesture with a gentle “No” is enough.
Less explanation, but more understanding. More patience. More care.
Because it is not that they do not understand — they simply need a way that works better for them.
And we, are the ones who help make the world a little easier for them.